To The Guy Who Has Been Broken – I won’t Promise You Anything Less But My Best

I understand that the past was pretty bad on you. And although I have been there, I won't be able to understand what and how it was like for you. Yes, I empathize and sympathize for you but believe me, I know that every heartbreak anyone goes thru is theirs and theirs alone.  You have told me glimpses and pieces of it, although you don't need to, I happily listened. I know you are guarding yourself from trusting people, I am too. You may not have gotten to trusting me yet. But everytime you question love and your purpose or...

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10 Confessions From People Who Identify Themselves As Heteroflexible

We live in a world full of labels, and different kinds of gender orientations. On them are said to be called heteroflexible. New word? Or maybe some just don't have the idea that this gender exist. Heteroflexibilty can be defined as “a form of sexual orientation that’s characterized by having opposite-sex attractions the vast majority of the time; however, heteroflexibles, once in a blue moon, are struck by a same-sex attraction.” So to emphasize just how confusing the world of dating can be for those who identify as hetereoflexible, we have the following confessions. 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6....

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The Traveling Girlfriend: Why I Would Rather Take My Man On An Adventure

 The moral lesson about this blog post is not about traveling at all, it's about how relationships work in so many different  ways.  This year I've been trying to figure out what I want to do. Who I want to be.  For years now I have jokingly said "when I grow up I want to be.... an explorer, an adventurer, a film maker, a athlete." the list has been endless and ever changing. A friend of mine regularly reminds me that at the age of 21, I should start start loving the beauty pf places. So back to the question;...

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Kiss Me More: 5 Benefits And Facts About Kissing That You Need To Know

Kissing. I know, it's always that magical feeling  when your stomach is full of butterflies everytime your lips touches your lovers lips. But do you know that it's not just that oh so good feelings matter but also kissing is indeed beneficial.  And here's why:  1. Kissing boosts immunity.  A recent study reported in the journal Medical Hypotheses says kissing may increase a woman’s immunity from Cytomegalovirus. Cytomegalovirus, contracted through mouth to mouth contact, can cause infant blindness and other birth defects if the mother is a carrier during pregnancy. Otherwise, the bug is relatively harmless in adults. Kissing has...

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4 Ways To Make Someone Fall Inlove Woth You.

Sometimes, we meet someone, somewhere on a random time and suddenly feel the spark flicker. Well, that might be love. You might be inlove. But to turn the other way around the person you love has no single attraction for you. It's always not easy to make someone fall in love with you. Therefore, it is good to know about some of the strategies that can make it more likely that someone will fall in love with you. All you can do is try to create the right conditions and see what happens. 1. FALL INLOVE WITH YOURSELF FIRST To...

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5 Reasons why Men Won’t Text Back

Waiting for that guy you met last night ,after six shots of Jagermeister, to text you? He told you he will text you but here you are, you've stared at your phone the moment you woke up, still no word from him.  You've done your errands for the day, have talked to your best friend for almost half the day, fed the cat three times, watched a boring flick, watched the sunset from your window, yet...still no text. You panic every time the phone makes that "new message" sound and you growl when you see it's a notification from your...

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Online Dating Craziness

Okay, so I have been back on the online dating scene two weeks ago.  I have actually deleted an account and decided to create another one.  To pass time and well, to meet some good old folks out there.  And I tell you, there are so many crazies out there.  Like totally. I guess when a woman is on an online dating app, you will get more than what you actually want.  And no, not in a good way.  More like, totally weird chats from different people all over.  So what online dating craziness is actually happening on there?  Let...

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Are You Dating A Manchild or a Man?

During the last few years that I have been dating, when a guy is acting aloof towards me, called me only several times a week and showed little interest, I would be hooked.  A lot of people would tell me that I was kind of attracted to the bad boy type of guy.  I was kind of drawn to based on what Ken Page - a PsychoTherapist - said as "attractions of deprivation."  This happens when we are attracted to people who have the baddest emotional characteristics of our parents.  Technically, it means that we are attracted to people who...

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Why Men Deserve The Crazy Title Too

Women are not crazy - says no guy ever.  And it could be true, but there are different levels of crazy for women.  Thing is, anything done by a woman will be considered crazy by a man.  Although I agree that there are women out there who are just down right insane.  But on another note, there are women who would do crazy things due to emotions.  Thing is men like to call every woman they are with crazy and it's the same cycle - but they never really bother do anything about it. But let me tell you something...

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